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15 signs that your partner is cheating on you <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Is your partner cheating on you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, whether the affair between your partner and someone else is purely physical or emotional, the cheating signs are often subtle. In fact, most often, people don\u2019t realize that their partner is cheating despite there being warnings. Conversely, some people do insinuate that their partner is cheating while they actually aren\u2019t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, how can you tell your partner is cheating, and are there different types of cheating?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s have a look!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How to know if partner is cheating<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Telling, for the fact, that your partner is cheating is quite a complicated thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Honestly, being oblivious of our significant other\u2019s infidelities is bad, but finding out that your partner has cheated or is cheating on you is never easy too. Most of us will agree that it is better to know the truth rather than remain in the dark.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some of your partner\u2019s behaviors should you look out for to help you read the signs and confirm suspicion if you haven\u2019t caught them in the act:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Their phone habits change<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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They start changing their phone habits, a sure sign that your partner is up to something.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Not obvious, but it is a direct sign, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It isn\u2019t justifiable that every time your spouse uses the computer or a phone in secret, they are cheating. But when someone wants to hide something from you, they will do it as their lives depend on it. This is a common norm for cheaters as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Additionally, it isn\u2019t a good sign if your partner\u2019s devices (phone and computer) didn\u2019t have a password before, and then they now have. And so, when they are reluctant to share the password or allowed to use or check their device, it can be an alarming sign.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Regular periods in which your partner is unreachable<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Not an obvious sign because being unreachable may happen to anyone. However, if you notice a pattern or trend in which he or she is unreachable, you should be cautious. Calling your partner and their phone is off or goes an answered during a peculiar period raises concerns. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, let\u2019s say most often when she is unreachable is when they are working late or on a business trip, then that is a bad sign.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Is your partner flirting?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

First, is flirting cheating?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s partly a norm to flirt in most countries. As long as it is appropriate, lighthearted, and just for fun, don\u2019t look too much into it but do not assume altogether.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finding out that your significant other has been flirting with someone via text messages or phones call is another bad sign. Is he flirting? If so, who is he flirting with, how is he\/she doing, and how often? If you can find answers to these questions, you can easily determine whether something is going on behind your back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. A sudden improvement in appearance<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

We all want to look good for a ton of reasons. And so, if I start eating well and exercising to get in shape, it doesn\u2019t mean I am cheating or not planning to. Doing this can be a sign that maybe I\u2019m trying to appear more attractive to you but also to Mr., Mrs., or Ms\u2019 I-can\u2019t-help-it.<\/em>\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, to be able to distinguish whether this improvement is aimed for you, then pay attention:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How does he look when he\/she is with you, Vs when she is going out for work or any other event? If she looks way classier when going out, something isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Changes in sexual activity<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Another sign of infidelity in your relationship changes in sexual activity from your partner. It doesn\u2019t matter whether the changes are in decreased or increased levels; what matters is how it happens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, if both of you start having sex that is less emotionally connected with your partner, it might be a possible sign of infidelity from one of you. If your spouse is focused on someone else, you guys may start having less or more sex. Furthermore, if your partner starts introducing new sex positions or techniques that they seem to be well-versed in, it may mean that he\/she is learning from someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Note, it is not conclusive that these changes in sexual activity are a result of your partner cheating. It might be caused by other internal or external factors, such as food, sickness, exercising, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Altered work schedule<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If your partner starts working late all of a sudden and it starts from just being once a week to being three or more times a week, then something is going down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Work Affairs are one of the most common types of cheating<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Of course, there will be countless generic excuses like \u201cgot up in traffic jam,\u201d had \u201cdead batteries,\u201d \u201cflat tires,\u201d etc., that your partner will come up with. Yes, it might be true that she was actually working late for the right reasons, but don\u2019t ignore this sign because it might save you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Additionally, when partners start cheating, business trips may start popping out of nowhere and becoming regular. This sign is more realistic when a partner has never traveled for work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. If your emotional intimacy starts fading<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Relationship and sex life are driven by two main things; desires and emotions. Desire builds and strengthens emotional relationships, thus making emotional intimacy and cultivating a strong relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Therefore, if emotional intimacy with your partner is fading is a clear sign that she is seeing someone else. The fact is you can\u2019t be in a marriage or relationship with someone without or with degraded emotional intimacy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. One-Night Stand<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Is one-night stand cheating?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First, the answer for this will mainly depend on which generation you and your personal take.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, Gen Z individuals are used to more personal freedom, and committing to long-term things like monogamy takes that away from them. Therefore, most of them don\u2019t actually believe that a one-night stand is cheating. However, for boomers, a one-night stand will be considered a form of cheating, thus bringing slight contradiction to whether it is cheating or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Surprisingly 27% of Americans do not believe that a one-night stand is cheating, according to a study on adultery<\/a>.  And so, context is everything in this case.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Friends feeling uneasy and anxious around you<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If your partner is cheating, there is a higher likelihood that their friends will know it before you. This is simply because your partner will be less careful on covering against your friends than she would against you. And as soon they (friends) are aware of this, they will start changing how they interact with you. Often when around you, they will feel uneasy and anxious as they know something you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. If your partner starts accusing you of cheating<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

One of the top ways cheaters deflect attention is by accusing you of cheating which is a strange move but a common habit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, why do they do this?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

According to the author of Finding Peace When Your Heart Is In Pieces<\/em><\/a>, psychologist Paul Coleman, Psy.D<\/em><\/a> cheaters do this for these reasons:<\/p>\n\n\n\n